Teen Gothic

I'm trying to broaden my scope with 80s goth rock a bit. But I've checked out about 20 other bands now, but I can't find something that clicks. I'm often turned off by bands that have too much of a punk sound. Or bands that have vocals I dislike, like too monotone (Sisters of Mercy, band always kind of felt like a goth pastiche?) or too punk (shouting with thick british accent). I care a lot about vocals in my music, if I don't like the singer I won't like the band.
The bands i like most are definitely the proto classics: Cure, Bauhaus, Joy Division and Siouxsie and the Banshees. And also: Asylum Party, Xmal Deutschland, Killing Joke, Echo and the Bunnymen, Cocteau Twins.

What should I be looking for? Any recommendations? Sorry for my rigidness.

I keep seeing the term “whimsigoth” on social media and I have no idea what it is. I think it’s just a term to describe a certain style thats trending, but seriously, does anyone know what it is???

The video is a bloodbath, filled with gore, greasepaint, machetes, and features an extended version of the original single that was produced by Bari Bari of Mephisto Walz.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7tN8zmkufE

https://preview.redd.it/tk2yxon1kj1a1.png?width=336&format=png&auto=webp&s=baa6aac4a9137e440f4f1a16e66694b9f1916747

The video is a bloodbath, filled with gore, greasepaint, machetes, and features an extended version of the original single that was produced by Bari Bari of Mephisto Walz.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7tN8zmkufE

https://preview.redd.it/tk2yxon1kj1a1.png?width=336&format=png&auto=webp&s=baa6aac4a9137e440f4f1a16e66694b9f1916747

I don’t fancy dealing w a fake for the 21+ night at metro one a month, are there any 18+ clubs/shows still running a goth night?